Dan Harper
Wisconsin
[email protected]
www.thecashcoupon.com///harp
MSLTD
Dan Harper is another one of those crazy merchant services agents who is now bad mouthing me on LinkedIn. I consider this stalking, so I am reporting the situation here so you are aware of it.
I wrote a post on LinkedIn looking to partner up with someone new, as I just had a falling out with an agent I worked very hard with for 6 months. I found out that he could be potentially dealing with a fraudulent processor, so I asked for proof they were legit & he didn’t want to provide me with any & said he was too busy to argue with me. I feared for my clients/merchants as we were just about to board several with him & this processor in the US.
To say I was shocked at how he talked to me is an understatement. I had cared about his sick daughter when she was in the hospital, but Robert had been testing my trust of him recently & this was just the last straw.
Anyway, Dan Harper contacted me on LinkedIn regarding my post, & said he wanted to help me because he had been in a similar situation. I assumed that he wanted to partner up.
Now every time I write a post on LinkedIn & I ask these idiots to PM me (this means private message) with their e-mail address, only 1% of them are able to follow simple instructions.
Most of them give me a phone number & say call me.
Some shoot me their website & tell me to go look them up.
The others don’t PM me, instead they write on the thread.
To say I can’t stand these ignorant uneducated merchant agents is an understatement. I will now ONLY deal with people who can follow simple instructions & respect others.
Dan didn’t give me an e-mail address when he PMed me, so I simply stated that I asked for an e-mail address, not a phone number.
He wrote back with, “My email is in my profile, I offered my help, I don’t need a snotty response from you. I’m willing to assist, but why would you need my help? And why only an email address? I had a guy help me out for free and I took up a lot of his time. I will do the same. [email protected] (my email)”
You see, he expects me to go fishing around for his phone number. A lot of these merchant account agents expect everyone else to be their secretary. Or at least that’s how they treat me. Whether it’s because I’m a woman, I don’t know, all I know is that it’s happened so many times, I know it’s a common trait amongst them.
I told him, “Dan,
I guess I thought you wanted to partner up & for that I need what I asked for, not someone who decides what I should need b/c they think they know better than me. That to me is disrespect.
Anyway, since this isn’t working for me, I wish you all the best Thank you for reaching out nonetheless, it’s too bad it didn’t work out, but better for me to know now rather than later.
Michelle”
He wrote back the STRANGEST response…
“I read your response and reread your post and now am totally confused. What were you asking for?”
LOL, now unless I’m really tired or sick, my communication skills are pretty good. In fact, I’m known for being very very thorough in my writing. So the fact that Dan couldn’t understand my post OR what I had written when talking to him privately told me there was something seriously wrong with this guy.
I told him, “Dan,
If you don’t understand anything I say when I talk, then that’s clearly a sign it’s not going to work.
All the best
Michelle ”
He wrote back being a typical merchant services agent with this remark, “Now I understand why you have problems, a year into it and you have an attitude. You deserve this business, it’s more tailored for men, but go ahead and try. Emotional women feelings will make you fail, as you are experiencing now.”
I ignored him.
Then the next day I see he’s trying to bash me on the thread.
He started doing background checks on me, started posting links about me that are lies, started trying to get others to be weary of me & my ethics. I take this as a sign of harassment & stalking & he’s not the first merchant services agent to stalk me online. I’ve posted about 2 others, one in particular who continues to talk cyber bully me every so often bashing me on a thread in public.
While I have to say this isn’t the majority of merchant services agents, the fact that I’ve already come across 3 just because I tell them I’m not interested in them speaks volumes.
They just can’t handle rejection & the way they want to punish me, is by trying to make me out to be the bad one.
Just amazing.
Dan is somehow associated with fundraising, so this is the type of person charities are hiring.
Michelle
Dan continues to spread lies about me & continues to cyber stalk me online.
Here is what he wrote, & here is my response below that…
“Thanks Justin.
For the record……I message her and said I would help her for free. She shot back, a nasty message about how she didn’t want me as a partner. I never offered anything like that. I looked at her profile, and noticed she’s been doing this for a year, if that. I remember my first year, sheesh. I got screwed twice buy crappy iso’s. She has sent me at least 8 incoherent emails and messages. That is when I started digging into her past. She has at least 3 aliases, and multiple web sites, and different ip addresses. All leading me to believe……..she is what she is.
Next up…….anymore rants by her…….and I will expose the rest of the info I dug up on her. IT AIN’T PRETTY!!!!!! ”
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Wow, more lies by Dan.
1. Offered to help me for free? Did I say I was going to pay from help from anyone?
See this is what I mean, Dan just doesn’t seem to understand anything I write or say & then he blames me for this.
2. Nasty message – LOL, I told everyone that Dan can’t handle rejection. There seems to be a few merchant account agents out there who can’t handle rejection & then attack.
My gawd, I hope these guys don’t go around raping or beating up on women too when they reject them : (
This is the typical sign of a stalker. He can’t handle rejection.
I’m sorry if you didn’t like how I rejected you Dan, but it was pretty clear to me after a few short messages with you that you were off in some other world & I just can’t handle that.
3. Alias? LOL, very funny. I have NO alises, but keep up the lies Dan, you seem to be very good at this & I’m keeping track of all your lies too & how you are cyber bullying me.
4. My past? Nothing wrong with my past. Of course I have many websites? I didn’t realize that was a crime online.
Do you know what an entrepreneur is or a netrepreneur Dan?
It’s hard for lay people to get that people can run different businesses all at the same time.
I guess Dan is just one of them.
Different IP addresses? Hmm, so when I move that seems to be a crime too.
This IS considered cyber stalking & defamation, & I am going to be talking to my lawyer about this & we will decide if we should report Dan to the police.
Now I’m going to unsubscribe from this thread, because unlike Dan & some others, I have a life which doesn’t include trying to attack people online for no reason & I’m a very busy person.
I wish anyone who’s sane out there all the best.
Just crazy & sad how people are these days. Please seek some help Dan, you definitely need to figure out a way to channel your anger & obsessions.
Michelle
Dan continues to follow me all over the Internet & guess what he’s doing?
He is sending me LinkedIn requests to connect with me LOL
The guy is seriously disturbed & is either trying to prove to me that I have different LinkedIn accounts (umm, so?, I have different businesses, & reasons for needing different accounts.) or he’s going to try & get all my LinkedIn accounts shut down.
This guy is dangerous. He is the type of person who gets fixated on someone who he feels has harmed him, & then goes after them with all of his attention until he brings them down.
I will be contacted my lawyer & will decide how to proceed from there.
And these fundraisers actually hire this guy. AMAZING. This is who your money is going to, someone who stalks & harasses people & women online.
Just realized that Dan now has tried to connect with me on Facebook LOL
This guy is INSANE.
He defames me, tries to ruin me & then goes around trying to connect with me or show me he can find me.
A stalker through & through.